Monday, March 12, 2012

Just a few...

K, here are some videos that I HAVE to share before another day passes by... You'll see what I mean. If you could have the babies in front of you this minute, you would understand just how amazing these videos are to me. Looking at the munchkins now, you would NEVER think that they were 3 pounds when they were born. But in these videos they are about 5 and 6 pounds and are around 36 weeks gestation, although they had been home for about a week or so. :) So incredible. I have so many more to share, and I will I promise. But here's a taste for now! Enjoy.


This is why we started calling her Noisy Cricket. Her little squeaks and grunts made the NICU nurses laugh... and made my mom, Kevin, and I just coo over her.


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Together at last... spending the day in bed with Mommy.



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Home at last with Big Brother. We'd been home for about 10 minutes in this video.


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I just want to thank everyone for your patience with me. I know that I have the greatest excuse EVER for not updating with pictures, stories, and details the way that I used to. But it still frustrates me when I realize just how little I've been able to share so far. Sometimes it takes me a month to reply to an email.... Sorry. :) I love you all nonetheless and I promise that I will get it together soon. Maybe when the babes start sleeping through the night and holding their own bottles! But let's not rush anything, K?

Love,

Enjoying every single minute of every day

@>->--

Saturday, February 11, 2012

What's in HER name...


So now it's baby girl's turn. (Baby boy's entry is here just in case you missed it.)

Miss Xiomara Marian Smith....


Our little girl... Our whole world. She has orange red hair and is feisty as all tarnation! She is so bright-eyed and beautiful and such a little sprite. Little punkin'.... Just like Liam's post, these pictures are her 3 month milestone.


Her nicknames are as follows:

Xio ("See-oh")
Sia
Sweet Pea
Sia Maria
Miss Mara
Baby Bobblehead
Little Peanut
Pipsqueak
Pippa (short for Pipsqueak)
Cutie Tootie (self explanatory...)
Spitty Cent
Angel
The Princess

One of our favorites is "Cricket." This basically come from the fact that she's so petite but raises quite a ruckus. So Kev started calling her "noisy cricket" in reference to the gun in Men in Black which is small but packs a wallop. That eventually got shortened to "cricket" and it's now probably her most common nickname that is unrelated to her actual name.


Xiomara

Kevin here. Since this is "my" name, I'm the one in charge of explaining it ;) I served a mission for my church for two years in southeast Mexico. While I was living in the city of Coatzacoalcos, we taught a family that had a cute little 6 or 7-year old daughter named Xiomara. Ever since I've always wanted to use it; however, since it was so uncommon (even in Latin America), I didn't hold out a lot of hope. When we found out we were having a baby girl, Nicole started "trying out" several different names on the little girl in her belly. One day Nicole turned to me and said, "I think she's Xiomara - nothing else feels right." I probably had the biggest goofy grin on my face at that moment!

There doesn't seem to be a lot of consensus on the internet about the origin, meaning, or pronunciation of Xiomara. Most say that it probably has its origins in Spanish, generally via a Mexican dialect like Nahuatl (the language spoken by the Aztecs - and still used quite a bit in Mexico) or Mayan. Some websites say the name is Portuguese, French, or even German, Greek, or Aramaic. Etymology isn't always an exact science, but my opinion is that our Xiomara is definitely Latin American, but I'm not sure where. I like the idea that it's Nahuatl since I learned to speak it conversationally while in Mexico, but personally I don't think it really fits in very well with other Nahuatl words other than the fact that it starts with an "X" - but maybe that's enough. Some websites think that it is derived from the spanish/portuguese name Guiomar. Most sources conclude that Xiomara means "famous warrior" or "ready for battle." I didn't really care much about what it meant, I just liked the name. Then again, she definitely is a fighter!

Now for the part everybody's been waiting for! ;)

For pronunciation the "x" is essentially pronounced like an "s" and the "io" is a diphthong so it should be a single syllable (pronounced like "yo"). So it would be pronounced with three syllables: "syo-ma-ra" - but that specific diphthong doesn't really exist in English so most Americans have trouble with it. The usual pronunciation we expect will be more like "see'-oh-ma'-ra." Honestly, I'm probably the only person that will call her "syo-ma-ra" anyway.



Marian

Nicole here. From the moment I found out I was having a girl, I knew what her middle name would be. Marian is my grandmother's name, and she is one of the sweetest, strongest, and most amazing women that I've been privileged to know in my lifetime. Grandma was in her late 40's when I was born, and I remember her being a young, fun Gram. She was always on the floor with us cousins while we played our games. She always had waffles ready with homemade jam for breakfast, and jars of frozen cookies for dessert. Now that I'm grown, I truly appreciate just how strong and steadfast my grandmother is. She is a woman full of faith, hope, and joy. I love her so much. She raised 4 children, worked for the same company for over 40 years, and was still running/ walking 5 miles a day up until a few years ago. We almost lost her to a serious illness just about 2 years ago when she ended up in the ICU with sepsis and renal failure, complications from a bout with a kidney stone. After losing circulation to her hands for a period of time, her fingers had to be amputated. I remember being so worried about her and how she would adjust to her new situation. But Grandma is truly a warrior and she fought hard to learn to do the things that she loves with her new hands. An inspiration to all of us.

When my sweet Xiomara was born 9 nine weeks early, I knew she had some battles ahead of her in order to come home. I remember looking at her full name on her birth certificate when it came in the mail and thinking to myself how glad I was that she is named after Grandma Stephie, hoping that some of Grandma's fight would shine through in her and bring her home soon. Grandma and Xio haven't met yet, but we're hoping that will happen early this spring. I have a feeling that they will be very close to each other in this life and the next. :)




Sunday, February 5, 2012

Reason #5723...

... Why it's cool to wear this hat:


Because THEN you look so awesome while drinking a capri sun.


Right?


ALSO!!!!! Here's a little peak at what truly got me through my bed rest... AND helped my little babes be so big and strong when they were born:


(NOTE: These moments were captured this summer. I'm just NOW getting to those pictures. More coming soon!)

.... You're drooling, aren't you?


Wednesday, January 25, 2012

I promise...


... Christmas pictures and stories coming very soon. I just need a quick nap first. :)

Man, we had fun.

@>->--


Monday, January 23, 2012

What's in HIS name...


Wow! There goes January... The little ones are now 3 and a half months old. Unbelievable! Their gestational age is about 6 weeks old, but I think that they are developing just fine and aren't really too far behind as the doctors said they might be. They both just smiled for the FIRST time this last week! And I mean a REAL deal smile. Like when they recognized that it was me next to their little face and they grinned from ear to ear... Man, that felt really nice. I love being their world. :)

Kevin and I are writing this post together. It's been awhile since we've done that! We've had a lot of people ask us about the babies' names and how we chose them and what they mean. So we thought that we would post about each kiddo and do some explaining. (why do I feel like I ALWAYS have some explaining to do? he he)

We'll start with Mr. Liam Stanford Smith.


Our little boy and our little joy. He is the ultimate Smith guy! Very laid back, very easy going, and he loves football and basketball already. He was on Daddy's lap last night when the 49's lost, and they both cried. Ha!... yeah. Liam, like his sister, has many nicknames. And some of them sound very much like he's a viking...

Liam the LipSmacker
Liam the Laid Back
Liam the Bubble Blower (ALWAYS has a bubble or two on his little lips)
Liam the Love Cub
Li (like "Lee")
Li-ster (like "Lee-ster)
Meester Li-ster
SonShine
The Spare Heir
Fantastic Hair Man

Just to name a few... I'm sure that I've forgotten some! Anyway, I took these pictures for his 3 month milestone and wanted to share them as Kevin explains his name. Enjoy!

.... enter Kevin:

So we wanted to do a couple of entries regarding the meaning of the babies' names. The reason why it has taken so long is because Nicole asked me to do the blog entries ;) I decided to start with the older of the two babies (by one minute... but it still counts!). An entry for the girl will hopefully follow in a few days.

Liam

According to the very informative Wikipedia entry, "Liam is a short form of the Irish Gaelic name Uilliam" the Irish equivalent of William. I found it interesting that “[u]ntil the end of the 18th century, Liam was virtually unknown outside Ireland” until the mass exodus of Irish as a result of the potato famine in the 1850s.

It means "helmet of will" or "strong protector." I guess we just liked it. I've always liked the name Will, but given my last name, the combination probably wasn't going to happen. (NOTE from Nicole: We considered Liam for Noah... but we felt like he was supposed to be Noah. But we've loved the name Liam for a long time).


Stanford

Liam's middle name is from my great, great grandfather, Joseph Stanford Smith (though apparently he mainly went by Stanford). Stanford Smith and his family were living in Cedar City in southwest Utah when he accepted the assignment to settle "the San Juan country" in the Colorado River basin of the remote southeast corner of Utah as part of the San Juan Expedition. As the expedition moved east across southern Utah, they eventually found themselves surrounded by the 1200-foot cliffs of Glen Canyon. After some exploring, they settled on creating a road out of an existing narrow slit in the canyon that would become known as Hole in the Rock.

Of the many tellings of the events of Hole in the Rock, I think this one (adapted from David E. Miller, "Hole-in-the-Rock: An Epic in the Colonization of the Great American West," 1959) is pretty good:

With blasting powder and tools, working most of December and January of
1879-80, they (pioneers) cut a precipitous, primitive road into the face of
the canyon precipice.

With this roadbed ...the task was now to get the first 40 wagons down the
"Hole."

Twenty men and boys would hold long ropes at the back of each wagon. The
wheels were then brake-locked with chains, allowing them to slide (while)
avoiding the catastrophe of the wheels actually rolling.

In one of the great moments of pioneer history, one by one the company
took the wagons down the treacherous precipice. When, miracle of miracles,
they reached the canyon floor, they eagerly started to ferry across the river
with a flatbed boat they had fashioned for that purpose. As it turned out, the
Joseph Stanford Smith family was the last wagon to descend that day.

Stanford Smith had systematically helped the preceding wagons down, but
somehow in their one-by-one success and consequent disappearance, the
others apparently forgot that Brother Smith's family would still need help as
the tail enders. Deeply disturbed that he and his family seemed abandoned,
... (Stanford) stood for a moment and looked down the treacherous "Hole."

(He) turned to his wife and said, "Belle, I am afraid we can't make it."

"We must make it," she replied.

"If we only had a few men to hold the wagon back we might make it," he
said.

"I'll do the holding back. We will make it," she said.

Positioning herself behind the wagon, Belle Smith grasped the reins of the
horse hitched to the back of the rig.

Stanford started the team down the "Hole." The wagon lurched downward.
With the first jolt the rear horse and Sister Smith were literally catapulted
into the air. Recovering, she hung back, pulling on the lines with all her
strength and courage. A jagged rock cut a cruel gash in her leg from heel to
hip. The horse behind the wagon fell to his haunches. The half-dead animal
was literally dragged most of the way down the incline. That gallant woman,
clothes torn, with a grievous wound, hung on to those lines with all her
might and faith, and with her husband muscled that wagon the full length
of the incline all the way to the river's edge.

On reaching the bottom, and almost in disbelief at their accomplishment,
Stanford immediately raced (1,300) feet back up to the top of the cliff
fearful for the welfare of the children. When he climbed over the rim, he
saw his three children literally unmoved from the position their mother
had placed them in.

Carrying the baby, with the other two children clinging to him and to each
other, he led them down the rocky (path) to their anxious mother below. At
that point, in the distance they saw five men moving toward them carrying
chains and ropes.

The Smiths had been missed from the larger party. Realizing the plight they
were in, these men were coming to help.

Stanford called out, "Forget it fellows ... (Belle) here is all the help a (man)
needs (to make this journey)."

The baby in the story above is my great grandfather.

This account contains some pictures and maps if you're interested.

~Kevin